How Not to Be a Dick in the Water with a Grom

Our Northland coastlines are a dream for surfers. But with all that beauty comes responsibility, especially when you're sharing the water with groms—those young, stoked kids who are just starting their wobbly journey.

1. Remember You Were a Grom Once

Yeah, that’s right. Before you were carving up the waves like a pro, you were that kid, eyes wide with excitement and nerves, trying to figure out how to stand up on your board without wiping out. So, show some patience. If a grom’s in your way, give them a break. They’re learning, just like you once did. A smile and a bit of encouragement go a long way.

2. Give Them Space

It can be tempting to hog the best spots, but remember, the ocean is big enough for all of us. Let the groms have a few waves to themselves. They’re not out there trying to steal your thunder—they’re just trying to catch that sweet ride. If you see a grom paddling for a wave, let them have it. You’ll get your turn.

3. Offer Some Tips—If They Want Them

Groms look up to the older surfers. If you’ve got some wisdom to share, do it in a way that’s helpful, not condescending. Don’t be that guy who’s all, “Back in my day…” Just a simple, “Hey, try paddling a bit earlier,” can make a huge difference. But don’t force it. If they’re not interested, just let them be.

4. Don’t Be a Wave Hog

This one’s for everyone, not just when you’re surfing with groms. If you’re out there grabbing every wave, you’re not just being a dick—you’re being unfair. Surfing’s about sharing the stoke. Take your turn, then let others have theirs. It’s not a competition; it’s about enjoying the ocean together.

5. Lead by Example

The best way to teach groms how to behave in the water is to show them. Be respectful, be kind, and be stoked. They’ll pick up on your vibe and learn that surfing’s about more than just riding waves—it’s about community, respect, and having a good time.

6. Don’t Lose Your Cool

Surfing’s supposed to be fun, right? So, if a grom drops in on your wave, don’t lose your rag. A little patience goes a long way. Maybe they didn’t see you, or maybe they’re just so amped they didn’t think. Either way, shouting and cursing isn’t going to help. Just paddle back out, wait your turn, and catch the next one.

7. Celebrate Their Wins

When a grom catches a good wave or finally nails that pop-up, give them a shout or a thumbs up. It might seem like a small thing, but it means the world to them. We all remember our first big wave, and having someone acknowledge that moment makes it even sweeter.

At the end of the day, we’re all out there for the same reason—we love the waves, the ocean, and the good vibes that come with surfing. So, next time you’re out there with a grom, remember these tips. Keep it cool, keep it kind, and most importantly, keep it fun.

See you out there, mate! And remember, the ocean’s for everyone—so let’s all do our part to keep it that way.

Team MEGA